Friendship to dating
Social worker, professor and author of “Buddy System: Understanding Male Friendships,” Geoffrey Greif, says that “Men often feel more comfortable disclosing intimacies to women than to men," so determine whether you’re mistaking the intimacy of friendship for something more before you disclose your emotions. Ensure that you have evaluated the possible benefits of revealing your romantic interest against the risk of losing your friendship.
But the friendship you guys had in the first place should still be a part of your relationship. After all, that’s what drove you two together in the first place.
Learn about each other from this new perspective, psychiatrist Paul Dobransky says. Give your feelings some time to progress from platonic to romantic ones. Remember to maintain the bond you shared as friends before the romantic relationship.
Recall the significance of the times you’ve spent confiding in one another, crying on each other’s shoulders or laughing together.
Before you cross the line from platonic to romantic, consider these critical distinctions. When you're taken though, this becomes harder to do because suddenly many of the people in our lives who we thought were platonic, start showing us a different side. If you're the one on the other side (debating telling someone that you like them as MORE than just a friend), please reconsider if they are taken.
I'm one of those girls: I like hanging with the boys.